Several years back, when I was “raging” on a daily basis, I began to explore what was causing these huge emotions to seemingly overtake me...what felt like every single day.
And I discovered the true cause of ALL the anger, upset and frustration we feel. I couldn’t believe I didn’t see it sooner!
And once I started applying that discovery to my parenting EVERYTHING began to change…
I’ve been teaching this same approach to my private clients for years and it works every time.
When you start using it, here’s what will happen.
First, you will find yourself feeling completely in control in the midst of any meltdown...no matter how frustrated you might feel with your kids.
When previous situations that would have turned into screaming matches or full blown emotional meltdowns present themselves, you’ll find yourself seamlessly navigating all the emotions and “coaching” your kids into cooperation.
This is crucial because you end up showing your children how to respond to whatever emotions they’re feeling in a healthy way that ACTUALLY HELPS them get exactly what they want, without you feeling like you “caved” or lost something!
The next thing that’ll happen is this: